Searching for Civilization
Date Night
Judea Jackson
Issue date: 10/12/09 Section: Opinions
The idea of "dating" seems to be disappearing rather quickly as more and more young people are "hooking up." But for the minority of college students who still take part in the time-honored (if archaic) tradition, finding the perfect date activity is hard no matter where you live.
It can be especially difficult for Henderson students who live in Arkadelphia. This town is not exactly hoppin' with stuff to do, but if you are a broke college student like me, it's usually all you've got.
With that in mind, I have compiled a list of fall/winter-time activities that will help charm the guy or gal you are interested in.
*Go camping: Many people don't think about camping after summer is over, but a quick overnight trip to Degray is a very inexpensive excuse to build a fire, roast some marshmallows and cuddle up to your significant other. If it's a new relationship, ask a few friends to come along, but bring separate tents just in case.
*Show off your roller disco moves: very few Henderson students know that there is a roller rink in Caddo Valley. Take a date down memory lane by goofing off on the floor and playing a game of air-hockey and showing off how low you can go... doing the limbo, of course!
*Give em' the stars: Henderson has its own planetarium that hosts several shows a semester. Starting Tuesday: "Stars of the Pharoahs." Students attend free so splurge on a nice dinner at Little Italy or The Hamburger Barn, then enjoy an always clear view.
*If you and your date are more into the late-night scene and need a relaxed place to hang out and grab a beer, head out to the VFW in Caddo Valley. It's a total dive, and that is its charm. Simple drinks, smoky pool rooms, and plenty of red-neck cliches, the V is anything but snobby. Wednesdays are Karaoke nights, and you can usually catch a few Henderson theater and music kids belting it out. The V also usually books live shows on the weekends.
*Play dress-up: Halloween is right around the corner; what better excuse to show off that inner super-hero or cowgirl to the person of your desire? Make dinner for your date in full costume and for dessert suggest trick-or-treating. Everyone wants to reclaim their childhood, but having the guts to do it is super-cool. There is something very sexy about a guy or gal who doesn't take themselves too seriously, so wear that costume with pride.
There ya have it: my list of Arkadelphia date ideas. Sure, they might be a bit cheesy and corny but - call me a romantic - isn't that part of the fun? For those of us who haven't given up on "dating" as a valid system, seeing someone acting silly or cheesy offers some pretty good insight on their personality. We are so used to the idea that being vulnerable is a bad thing, but when it comes to possible love, how else can you know someone? I'm not too much of a cynic to admit that yeah, I still play dress-up.
It can be especially difficult for Henderson students who live in Arkadelphia. This town is not exactly hoppin' with stuff to do, but if you are a broke college student like me, it's usually all you've got.
With that in mind, I have compiled a list of fall/winter-time activities that will help charm the guy or gal you are interested in.
*Go camping: Many people don't think about camping after summer is over, but a quick overnight trip to Degray is a very inexpensive excuse to build a fire, roast some marshmallows and cuddle up to your significant other. If it's a new relationship, ask a few friends to come along, but bring separate tents just in case.
*Show off your roller disco moves: very few Henderson students know that there is a roller rink in Caddo Valley. Take a date down memory lane by goofing off on the floor and playing a game of air-hockey and showing off how low you can go... doing the limbo, of course!
*Give em' the stars: Henderson has its own planetarium that hosts several shows a semester. Starting Tuesday: "Stars of the Pharoahs." Students attend free so splurge on a nice dinner at Little Italy or The Hamburger Barn, then enjoy an always clear view.
*If you and your date are more into the late-night scene and need a relaxed place to hang out and grab a beer, head out to the VFW in Caddo Valley. It's a total dive, and that is its charm. Simple drinks, smoky pool rooms, and plenty of red-neck cliches, the V is anything but snobby. Wednesdays are Karaoke nights, and you can usually catch a few Henderson theater and music kids belting it out. The V also usually books live shows on the weekends.
*Play dress-up: Halloween is right around the corner; what better excuse to show off that inner super-hero or cowgirl to the person of your desire? Make dinner for your date in full costume and for dessert suggest trick-or-treating. Everyone wants to reclaim their childhood, but having the guts to do it is super-cool. There is something very sexy about a guy or gal who doesn't take themselves too seriously, so wear that costume with pride.
There ya have it: my list of Arkadelphia date ideas. Sure, they might be a bit cheesy and corny but - call me a romantic - isn't that part of the fun? For those of us who haven't given up on "dating" as a valid system, seeing someone acting silly or cheesy offers some pretty good insight on their personality. We are so used to the idea that being vulnerable is a bad thing, but when it comes to possible love, how else can you know someone? I'm not too much of a cynic to admit that yeah, I still play dress-up.
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